What is squirting? And how do you squirt during sex?
These are a few of the most commonly asked questions I receive. Many women enjoy how it feels when the G spot is touched and find that it plays a big part in trying to squirt. Aside from the techniques how to squirt, I’m also going to be explaining the different types of orgasms women can have, as well as some useful preparation tips, so the girl is comfortable.
Some people can squirt or ejaculate before or after an orgasm. Squirting can also happen at the same time as an orgasm. Some people also have multiple spurts of squirting spread over a few minutes. A recent study has shown that there is a difference between squirting, female ejaculation, and incontinence during sex. However, the term squirting is used to describe all three in everyday language.
If you follow this process, you will surely make your sex life more intriguing than ever. You don’t need to treat the glans clitoris as a “doorbell that you need to ring,” Dr. O’Reilly says. Instead, Tanner suggests layering the natural folds of your labia over the nub to massage it indirectly. This way, you’re reducing any friction that might otherwise cause your clit to feel overstimulated.
Beforehand, try bathing or showering together, or treat yourselves to professional massages. Since penises and many dildos don’t tend to move in a “come hither” motion, penis-in-vagina intercourse might not provide the kind of direct, intense stimulation needed for squirting. Some people who squirt say that vigorous movement and/or intense penetration helps them make it happen.
You should always contact your doctor or other qualified healthcare professional before starting, changing, or stopping any kind of health treatment. If you’d like to learn more about orgasms, check out our in-depth interview with Shelby Devlin, MA. If your partner is using a condom then you’ll definitely want to use some lube to prevent friction, but just make sure it’s not an oil-based lube, as that can damage the condom. German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg first described the orgasm-producing area (now known as the G-spot) in the 1950s, although he didn’t coin the term.